One can learn quite a few things from the School of Hard Knocks , with zero tuition fees other than one’s own sweat and tears. I guess I am still struggling mid-school, with some awesome teachers and a tough curriculum, but hope to graduate Magna Cum Laudae eventually: Pain isn’t bad, it’s actually essential for growth. That old saying about “No pain, no gain” may be clichéd, but still truer than you imagine!! Ever seen a young Mom gaze lovingly at her new born after the pain of labour? Positive attitude is a wonderful thing, but don’t paint everything rosy. If your house gets burgled three times in a row, it’s not as if you are gaining experience getting burgled; you are actually gaining experience getting buggered and that too with your own complicity. So, learn from your mistakes. Learn to say “NO” . Be undiplomatic when required, and especially so in your personal life. Don’t be sugary sweet, ...